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First Book Signing

So, my ebook, ALL YOU NEED IS LOVE, is available as a paperback, on amazon.com, and I couldn’t be more excited! I managed to sell the downloads necessary for it to become a print on demand, and as if that wasn’t enough, this weekend I attended my first book signing festival at Unionville Winery in Ringoes, NJ.

One week before, my stomach started acting up, my face broke out, and I couldn’t sleep. Jeez, I felt like a sixteen-year-old going on her first date. This festival takes place every fall and it was one of the best I’ve been to in a long time. The owner of the vineyard told us he expected at least 2,000 people, and he wasn’t kidding.

I love to people watch–so sitting at the booth and watching everyone, in all shapes and sizes come together and enjoy different wines, good food and the wonderful fall weather was so much fun for me. As luck would have it, Mother Nature graced us with good weather. Although rain had been predicted, she held off until later that day after we had all packed up and were safely home. The wind gave us a run for our money, but other than that it was all-good. There were dozens of vendors, including crafts, food, and wine : )

A good friend, Linda Parisi, author of sinful suspense, showed up unexpectedly and made my afternoon. My husband, daughter, and one of my best friends came to the festival later in the day, and made the afternoon even more special. After they had been to the wine tasting, they brought over a bottle of wine, an extra glass, a large marguerita pizza, and we spent some time together. Is it just me? Because I think wine makes everything more special : )

I signed with two lovely ladies, Chris Redding, author of romantic suspense, and Helen Henderson, author of science fiction/fantasy/history books, both of whom I would spend the day with again : ) Did I sell dozens of books? No.

But in the end, that didn’t matter, I left with a few Christmas gifts, lots of business cards, and a good feeling. My daughter blamed it on the wine, but I disagree. When you spend an afternoon with people you enjoy and care about—life doesn’t get much better than that!

Cathy

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Show Up Naked: Writing the Male POV by Guest Author, Chris Redding

Chris Redding lives in New Jersey with her husband, two kids, one dog and three rabbits. She graduated from Penn State with a degree in journalism. When she isn’t writing, she works part time for her local hospital. Her latest release in print is A View to a Kilt. Welcome, Chris!

Thanks, ladies!  This is an excerpt from a workshop I do called Show Up Naked: Writing the Male POV. This lecture talks about the basics of men…

Aggression as Part of the Game

In our culture aggression in some form is expected of men, whether in business or on the playing field. Think about a stock broker. He needs to win the game to win for his clients and make money.

Ask to be part of the team you want to be on. Men to do it all the time. They ask for things that women are loathe to do. I used to work a job at night. I’m not a night person. When my boss came to me for a solution to the problems I was having, I asked to work during the day. Problem solved. He saw nothing wrong with me asking for something. It was part of his psyche to ask for what he needed so it made perfect sense that I would ask for what I needed. (Little did he know how much I agonized over the that request.)

Most men lobby for the attention to get on a team.

So men decide what they want and then work towards getting it. Not that women don’t, we just do it differently or wait for it to come to us.

Men make themselves visible. Remember when I talked about how men toot their own horns? How they talk up their own accomplishments? If you aren’t visible, someone else can take credit and they win the game. Not you.

Risks are a part of the game. Men are willing to take them. By acting as if they know how to do it, men get to try something new and sometimes it works out. They win!

I Coulda Been a Contender

Fighting is part of the game. I think as women we are socialized to avoid conflict. Back to that “make everyone happy”. Men have no such socialization and are taught to look out for themselves. I think we’ll see this changing soon.

For men fighting can bring the team together. And being that most men won’t walk away from a fight, it works. Not all men choose to engage in the fight. I know lots of men who can talk their way out of a fight.

And since there are rules to the fight, just as there are rules in any game, each man knows when to quit. Think about a duel. Two people choose their weapons. They walk ten paces, turn and shoot. It couldn’t be more civilized if you discount the killing part.

No one intervenes. It’s between the two men and they both follow the rules.

Ever seen two women fight? There are no rules.

That said, there is nothing wrong to a man if you find your opponent’s weakness and go for it. That is considered fair.

Because they know the rules of the fight, men also know when to stop. They stop fighting when it is clear they won’t win or that the cost of winning is too high. This is ripe for conflict in a novel. Remember this when your hero is fighting for something. This is the quintessential dark moment when he must give up the fight. Most likely in a romance novel, if he wins, he loses the girl. I’m tingling at the thoughts of what you can do with this information. How strong you can make that dark moment.

Thanks for having me today.

cmr

A View to A Kilt:

Waking up next to a dead guy can ruin your whole day.

When a wise-cracking interior decorator wants to put her past behind her, the dead body of the mayor’s son makes it pretty clear that won’t happen too easily.

A conservative former computer geek for the FBI is holding on too tightly to his past. His wife died under suspicious circumstances and he believes the decorator has the information to solve the case. Unfortunately for him, she isn’t talking… until a series of events convinces her she needs protection especially when her biggest secret threatens to destroy both their lives.

You can buy A View to a Kilt at:

Omnilit 

Smashwords

Amazon

Nook Store

 

Summer Reading List

I spend a lot of time at the beach and pool over the summer, and I spend it indulging in my favorite past time:  reading.  The titles on my list encompass one young adult, a fantasy romance, one science fiction, a romantic suspense and a historical romance.

  1. I am Number Four by Pittacus Lore
  2. Outlander by Diana Gabaldon
  3. Summer Knight by Jim Butcher
  4. Corpse Whisperer by Chris Redding
  5. Captured by a Rogue Lord by Katharine Ashe

What’s on your list?  I’m particularly looking for good romantic suspense but I like to read outside that genre as well.

Be The Chihuahua – by guest author Chris Redding

Chris Redding lives in New Jersey with her husband, two kids, one dog and three rabbits. She graduated from Penn State with a degree in Journalism. When she isn’t writing she works part time at her local hospital.  Her next release is A View to a Kilt out in September. She currently has The Drinking Game, Corpse Whisperer and Incendiary available at your favorite bookstore.

Find Chris on the web at www.chrisreddingauthor.com

http://chrisredddingauthor.blogspot.com

www.twitter.com/chrisredding

www.facebook.com/chrisreddingauthor

Welcome, Chris!

My degree is in journalism and for about 5 months I actually worked in that field. Did I crave the hard news? Nope. I loved the feature stories, but I went at them with no less vigor than I did the breaking stories.

Frankly, people’s jobs are interesting. I once spent a half an hour on the phone with a guy named Ted E. Behr (no joke)  talking about effluent. It was fascinating because he found it fascinating.

What does that have to do with being a Chihuahua?

Well I always warn my interviewee that I will keep asking questions until I either get an answer or understand what the person is telling me. I liken it to those little dogs that grab onto your pant leg and won’t let go.

Gotta admire the little guy’s persistence. He’ll hang onto your pant leg and he only weighs eight pounds.

And I think this is a great attitude on many levels for a writer.

First you have to be persistent and finish the damn book.

Then you have to learn all you can about writing and how to make your gem shine.

And of course you have to submit. No matter how many rejections, you have to keep polishing and keep submitting. Until someone says, “yes.”

You must write another book. And another. Until you write one that someone wants to publish.

And when it is published, you have to get out there and network with your readers. You have to do signings. You have to do workshops.

You have to be persistent.

Especially because lots of people around you won’t be.  I’ve seen writers come and go and never get published. And it wasn’t because they couldn’t write, it was because they gave up.

So be the Chihuahua.

Bystander CPR

Today’s guest blogger is author Chris Redding.

Chris lives in New Jersey with her husband, two kids, one dog and three rabbits. When she isn’t writing, she works for her local hospital. She has been an American Heart Association CPR instructor for more than 16 years.

Corpse Whisperer, her latest book, is out on Kindle. Incendiary will be out mid-December.

Welcome, Chris!

Before you read my blog, I want you to read this article. Go ahead. I’ll wait. http://www.mycentraljersey.com/article/20100907/HEALTH/9070313/North-Plainfield-mom-saves-baby-s-life-with-CPR

I had goosebumps when I spoke to that woman on the phone. Why did she call me? Because my job is to teach people CPR. She learned at my hospital from one of my instructors.

Now, let’s talk about bystander CPR. What is CPR?

Cardio-Pulmonary Resuscitation.  It is compressing the chest of someone in cardiac arrest, so that blood pumps through their body. Most importantly to their brain to keep the cells from dying.

Simple?

Sure. Anyone can do it. My twelve year old could walk you through it.

Why does the blood have to pump? Because brain death begins at 4 minutes of the brain not getting oxygen. That is less time than it takes to heat up a Lean Cuisine.

In ten minutes brain death is certain.

But if you perform CPR on someone in cardiac arrest (heart stopped), you will push that envelope. You will keep that person’s brain cells alive.

Because on police cars and ambulances are devices called AEDs. Automated External Defibrillators. They are found in malls and airports, also.

Contrary to popular belief (and reported in the NY Times) an AED does not restart your heart. When a heart initially goes into cardiac arrest, it actually doesn’t stop dead. It quivers for awhile. An AED will stop that quivering in hopes that your natural electrical rhythm, the one that keeps you heart beating, will take over and make your heart beat.

If you do CPR for the ten minutes it may take for an ambulance to get there, you will be keeping that person’s brain alive and keeping them viable so an AED can do its job.

Pretty neat, huh?

And it is easy. Just find a class. Sign up and attend. Call your local rescue squad. Call your local hospital. Someone near you is offering a course. Go to www.americanheart.org to find a class near you.

Do it. Save a life.

Because heroes are trained, not born.

To one lucky commenter, I am giving away a purple tote of goodies.

Thanks for stopping by today.